OK after multiple frustrating hours, I finally figured it out. After changing every setting in my router, I ruled it out as the problem. Next I went to the wii. I tried manually setting up my wifi and multiple other things (too many to mention). Finally i went into the priiloader menu and disabled everything that had to do with wifi. SUCCESS!!!!!!!!!! After that I started one by one to enable the wifi settings that I disabled in priiloader. It turns out that if I have "force wifi connection test failure" enabled, it is a no go. I am just posting this because it might help someone else out. And thank you for all the suggestions.
Wii 4.1U - cIOS38 rev17 - 500gbHDD - Wiiflow 2.1 - uLoader 5.1 - Wimc 1.0.9 - Priiloader 0.5 - boot2 - gamecube launcher 2.0 - cMIOS rev3