Buy a new connector. Resolder it with plenty of flux applied on pcb.
Originally Posted by Beaps
Alternative is to strip the good old ribbon cable and solder it directly onto the pcb.
I know you're capable to do it, looking into the photo that shows your brilliant skill.
To be honest, I've no idea about the pin assignment of the conn/ribbon. However, I guess not all the pins are required to signal the presence of DVD-ROM, or alike. You may find a better way to spoof the mother board and get it plays loaders normally.
Last edited by billyhome; 10-24-2012 at 09:06 AM.
If you don't want to do what billy has suggested above, you could always set up SNEEK/UNEEK, which is actually pretty easy to do if you use ModMii.