i finally got it, after downgradeing, to 3.2 then back to 4.0u i can finally play all of my backups, includeing punchout that was giving me a hard time, play my wads from my sd card and etc, its all great

if i could only run my backups from the disc channel as opposed to the backup channel i'd be perfect, but i rather not chance it i'll work with everything i have lol

thanks to everyone this site has been hugely helpfull, i'll return the favors by helping whoever i can from my looong experiance.