Then install cios38rev14.wad, using ios36 again.
Then install ios30-v1040.wad, using ios249 now
Then install system menu 3.2 wad (in your region), also using ios249
Also install IOS50-v4889.wad, using ios249
Hopefully when your done your system menu will boot, or atleast try to boot to a bannerbrick, and fingers crossed your wiimotes will sync. Then you can load anytitle deleter and remove whatever could be causing the bannerbrick.
And another though, try to boot savemiifrii, then when in the recovery console, push the red sync button on the wii, and then on your wiimote.