IOS60 did not come out until March 25th 2009.
Your bluetooth module is fine.
A 4.0/4.1 Wii without IOS60 will not work, not now or ever.
If the DVD slot flashes twice you can recover using bootmii/boot2 and cboot2.
If the Wii is sufficiently old - roughly Pre August 2008 you can use an infectus modchip to flash boot2 onto the Wii and recover using cboot2.
Some reading http://gbatemp.net/index.php?showtop...&#entry2488175
Erikie knows about Infectus http://www.wiihacks.com/members/erikie.html