You have a banner brick and thats why updating didn't help. It also sounds like the dvd drive is to new to read dvd-r's. You could autoboot an "original" wii fit and maybe fix it. Maybe someone will be kind enough to link you the savemiifrii thread. There are some options in that thread that might help. Including the wii fit method I mentioned.
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