Semi bricked from update to 4.1 - new

My previous thread was based on the fact that I had 4.2 firmware because of nsmb update but I'm pretty sure its 4.1 so all the help I got was based on the wrong thing and I'm not sure where to start now. I installed a pal nsmb update on a ntsc wii and now I can't access the settings. Ive installed hbc dvdx and bootmii as per the -Full hacking guide for 4.2 system menus!!!!- tutorial and Im not sure what to do now.

I'm not sure what tutorial to use because I'm not able to setup an internet connection which the tutorial says is required. "http://www.wiihacks.com/recommended-faqs-guides-tutorials-only/16970-new-3-1-4-1-softmod-any-wii.html"

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Do step3 from the 3.1-4.1 guide
Do step 5a-5d

Then place wadmanagers boot.dol onto the root of your sd-card
Download system menu 4.1u. wad
Save to sd:\wads
Place ios60patched.wad in sd:\wads
Hold reset and boot
Preloader starts
Click load/install then load boot.dol
Wadmanager starts
Use ios249
Install ios60patched
then
Install system menu 4.1u
Then reboot the wii
reinstall preloader
Don't update from disks anymore- make sure the hacks are enabled in preloader.

thanks for all the help mauifrog your instructions worked perfectly and everything is working great.